“We endured the nightmare,” he exclusively told E! News. “Now we have to live the dream.” An Indiana judge awarded Andrew primary physical and sole legal custody of James and Amber’s 4-year-old son, according to court documents obtained by The Sun. The judge also granted Andrew’s request that James be relocated to California. However, Andrew is ordered to “seek and consider the mother’s opinion before making important decisions about the child’s medical care, education and religion.” As for Amber, the Teen Mom star has been granted one-night stands with James that will work out monthly, per outing. Her time with the 4-year-old will alternate between the states of California and Indiana. Following the judge’s ruling, Amber, who is also mother to 13-year-old Leah with ex Gary Shirley, shared in a statement that she has “worked so hard to improve myself and improve my relationships with my children.” .